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GROWTH MINDSET


What is one step you can take to develop a growth mindset?

The human mind is dynamic, sometimes we change our decisions and plans abruptly due to the influence of our surroundings and how strong are we to protect our own thoughts. It’s not bad if it’s for us to grow but most of the time we embrace wrong decisions in our lives that can cause us heartbreaks. This is commonly happening for the youth nowadays, my generation. Because our hearts and minds are fragile, young, and easily persuaded. Once that we are broken, it can be a loss of soul. 

Just a few of the youth nowadays who can understand pains as a challenge for growth because the happenings in the world itself are too much for them to carry. In a world full of negative vibrations there is hope. All you need to do is to find it and have it within you. Having hope is the key to a growth mindset. But where to find it? Where to get it? And who can help? 

For some people learning is easy because they have a growth mindset. But for others, learning is hard because of different causes, it can be because they are hurt so much reason why they are afraid to step up. We cannot blame people of who they are, we cannot conclude about them because we don’t know what is happening to their private life. They are stocked of where they are, growth is inviable for them because of lack of motivation, loss of inspiration and hope. These people need help, and what we can do is to motivate them and be one of their inspiration in life, make them feel that in their battle they have allies. 

But how we can motivate them? As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, we need to introduce the Gospel. The Gospel of Christ can soften a hardened heart not abruptly but little by little it can humble someone’s heart and soul. This is the number one step to develop a growth mindset, learning by doing the Gospel of Christ. 

I’ve been in the situation where I was broken and afraid to step up, I feel like I am in a cage, I cannot get out of the loneliness and pain. Some may say I am very dramatic, but it’s true and we all have dramas in life. We are not just comfortable in sharing because it’s still inside us. It’s like cancer that kills us softly. It feels like there is no hope in this world all you can see is pain and war, a war against other people and war against yourself. I am blessed because of the Gospel of Jesus Christ that the missionaries have shared with me, it changed my life. The missionaries motivate me by sharing the Gospel, they became my friends, supporters, and inspiration. Through the Gospel of Christ, I found hope, I found the strength to go on in this struggled life. I found Joy which enlightens my wholeness as a child of God. The journey wasn’t easy, but I survived because I knew some people are with me to press forward with a steadfastness in Christ. Right now, as a young single adult, I am determined of the things I should do to be the best man that I can be.

Things happen for a reason, right now we can’t bring back what has been lost but we can start to build it again through the power of Christ the Lord thy God. Just let Him be and the Holy Spirit to guide. Hardened not thy mind and heart, seek thee growth by the light of Christ. 

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